Words of encouragement—that sounded so easy when I first had the idea to write about it. I really just wanted to put something together that would help friends of mine get through a tough time, perhaps offer some encouragement to the discouraged, maybe even replace a tear with a smile.
Personally, I have never been more discouraged than when I’ve been alone, or at least felt alone. I was visiting with a brother in Christ once who was discouraged. I asked him a question that may have changed my life more than his. I like to ask questions that are easy to answer, but, in the answering, make us see a particular point. I asked this friend, “Do you feel that God has abandoned you?” I intended for him to give the obvious answer, “No!” and then, magically understand, open his eyes, and realize God was still with him. To my amazement, he answered, “Yes!” Well, that caused me to change my approach drastically. I now had to convince him that God was still nearby (see Psalm 139).
From that day, I have made that question a regular part of my conversations with those who are discouraged to some degree. And a large number of them answer, “Yes, I feel abandoned by God!” Before we go any further, let me assure you, one and all, that God has not gone anywhere!! Did you read Psalm 139? Take out your Bible and do so if you have not already. Go ahead, I’ll wait!
Now, some may see a threat in these verses (i.e., God is everywhere, watching over your shoulder to see if you do something wrong), but I encourage you to look at this passage from the point of view of someone who is discouraged and feels that God has abandoned him or her. Maybe you’ve sunk to the depths of despair; you are deeper than you have ever been. Well, even in the deepest depths, God’s hand will lead you (verse 10). Even in the darkest night (gloomiest circumstances) God see you (verse 12).
Does it encourage you to know that you are in complete control? Well, I hate to tell you this, but you are not in complete control. But wait! There’s good news!! There is One Who is in complete control. And, if you belong to Him, He is on your side. And if you aren’t, you can be!! Wipe the tears away and smile, because God loves you and so do I.
Donnie Bates